Today I learnt that one of our oldest students had
decided to quit. While this came as no surprise to me as the students
attendance was sporadic at best, what did come as a shock was that he had not
told our Sifu. When I heard this I was quite sad as Sifu treated this person as
a son over many years. Years ago I remember the parent of a young student of
mine bringing their child to class one day, just to tell me in person that they
had decided that the art was not for them. I can’t remember who that person
was, their gender or age, but I do remember the importance. It was important to
the parent that the child understood that when someone has put time and effort
into teaching you, the very least they deserve is to be told in person that you
no longer wish to learn anymore. It is more than good etiquette; it is decency,
consideration and respect for others.