Saturday, May 26, 2012

Learning how to Quit

Today I learnt that one of our oldest students had decided to quit. While this came as no surprise to me as the students attendance was sporadic at best, what did come as a shock was that he had not told our Sifu. When I heard this I was quite sad as Sifu treated this person as a son over many years. Years ago I remember the parent of a young student of mine bringing their child to class one day, just to tell me in person that they had decided that the art was not for them. I can’t remember who that person was, their gender or age, but I do remember the importance. It was important to the parent that the child understood that when someone has put time and effort into teaching you, the very least they deserve is to be told in person that you no longer wish to learn anymore. It is more than good etiquette; it is decency, consideration and respect for others.


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